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Ravivinayak.c · Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 12:58 am Post subject: regarding marriage

i think this is necessary

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Leo.gal.76 · Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 2:28 am Post subject: Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan

Yes!Yes!Yes!Yes!Yes!
This is a site for the disabled....everything for the disabled IS neccessary!!!!
that INCLUDES giving a New Year party,Holi Party,Diwali Party,Christmas party and oh yes....AccessAbility foundation Party as well!!!!

Agree with me guys n gals.....Ladies n gentlemen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

THOMASJACOB · Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 12:23 pm Post subject:

Do you mean marriage is essential or a matrimony coloumn is essential

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Thomas Jacob

Leo.gal.76 · Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 12:41 pm Post subject: Good question!!!!

Nice question u put there,Thomas Jacob!!!!!!

Matrimony column is ESSENTIAL so that they should not have problems in finding the suitable partners of their choice....and as for Marriage...well,they have to live their life on their own one day,free their parents from their worries and dependency and strive to lead the world on their own.Show to the enabled people that even we disbled can live on their own,alone and survive.

SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST is my motto...and I have lived to prove it.I feel in love with a normal guy despite my hearing handicapped,taught him few sign languages and made him come to terms with my disability.Now I can proudly say that I am happy in my married life with a normal son....but I really do feel for those who are still unabled to get married and specially more so for my female friends who are already past 40,past child bearing stage and still unmarried.Thats why I am doing everything that I can,if not for them as it is too late,but for the next coming generation.

And one positive note for those who are still not married and pass the age of 35-40:U CAN STILL GET MARRIED IF THE FORUM STARTS THE MATRIMONIAL COLUMNS AND ADOPT A CHILD...u still have a life to lead....and dont wait for the forum,I am there naa....I can help u in many ways I can but finance is the main constraint that is holding me back.Mutually I can do it if I come across them..telephonically via sms and visiting them will take toll on my already burdened financial problems.

But still,get in touch with me with ur stats and I will do the needful if I can.

THOMASJACOB · Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 12:56 pm Post subject:

Looks like you didnt get my point ........

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Leo.gal.76 · Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 1:33 pm Post subject: yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaar

I DID get ur point......and i have already replied to ur query in the FIRST PARAGRAPH itself.
The next remaining paras are out of my own thinking and views.

still....if u think I did say the EXACT thing u had wanted,kindly let me know.But I dont think I had missed anything.
Am going out now...need to get Airtel Connection so I will log in again in the night.
See ya'

Leo.gal.76 · Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 1:35 pm Post subject: Correction....

Sorry,I noticed a mistake...
Am in a hurry and noticed it after it was posted..

What I mean to say is that Still if u think I DIDNT say the exact thing u had wanted,do plz get back to me.Gotcha' naa????

Lovingheart · Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 3:51 pm Post subject:

My vote is always with those who think that marriage forum for the person with disabilities is necessary.
I already expressed my concern that mostly guys are discussing this topic but girls are sitting in a lul!
But marriage cannot be happened without a girl or a boy. Smiles!!!
So everybuddy should equally contribute their views.
Well there may be some reasons that why girls not been able to participate in this discussion. Hence I cannot misunderstand them. But one thing is for very sure, only discussion will result in nothing unless we do something seriously in the direction.

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"Alone we can do so little, together we can do so much"-Helen Keller.

Leo.gal.76 · Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 9:03 pm Post subject: Tsk!!Tsk!!

Dear Amit,

If u have eyes,and if u do remember my id then u could have noticed that the person ABOVE u is a female...a lady!!!!!
I have contibuted so many to the marriage forum as well!!!!!

THOMASJACOB · Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 11:02 am Post subject:

Leo Gal

Your user name added to the confusion, may be you should change it.......

Amit is visually impaired .........

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Lovingheart · Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 1:39 pm Post subject: Re: Tsk!!Tsk!!

Dear Jyoti ji,
I know very well that you are a female but my indication was indeed not towards you. See, I wanted to say that number of girls on such discussion should be increased. More over, you are a married but unmarried girls required to partake here. Ha ha ha! Smiles!
Hope you won't take me otherwise, madam.
As you said that you have contributed to some marriage forum too, so I can also hope that you would be doing something also for me in this direction. I have already putted my views in one of my mails expressing that you should look for a good match for me! Did you go through that E-mail?

THOMASJACOB · Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 1:58 pm Post subject:

Hey Amit

I remember that Shivan had already given you a fitting reply on the earlier thread we had on the same subject

And I really liked her views

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Thomas Jacob

Leo.gal.76 · Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 3:33 pm Post subject: Reply to both of u

Hi Amit and Thomas,

Firstly Amit,I will get back to u immediately after reading ur mail which I will do so by night.And as per Thomas's saying that Shivani is doing the needful....well since Amit is Delhi based and so is Shivani,it wont be hard for them.I am Mumbai based and Amit has to come here with his parents in case needed be.Anyway I have a gal who is lookeing for a prospective groom and she is hearing impaired and suffer from colour blindness.There may be other girls too,I will look around.Just tell me ur choice,Amit and i will find the partner of ur liking,but I can do it from Mumbai only,preferably Mumbai based.U come here,marry her and take her off to Delhi..........From Mumbai only I can only bid u ta-ta!!!hahaha.....

Anyway,kindly wait for my response.By night i will get back to u.U can reply me at ur own time convenient to u.But please dont forget AccessAbility-Delhi as well.

I already feel like I am the head of AccessAbility-Mumbai,running its centre from my home.....as I have already got 2 workd to do from this forum.One seeking a job,and the other seeking marriage.I will try to give my best so that AccessAbility-Delhi will gain recognition.My credit goes to them!!!!!!I owe the team behind a lot!!!!!

Warm Regards,
Jyoti

Leo.gal.76 · Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 3:38 pm Post subject: ......Hi again

..............and Amit,

Sorry,I havent gone thru ur profile as yet.I will go thru it clearly and for ur kind information-I have a register handy with me to put down the details for whoever comes to me for help.This register is marked-AccessAbity:Mumbai.

I didnt know the nature of ur handicap.Now I will,and will know about the rest as well as I will be putting it down in the register whoever gets in touch with me for whatever needs.All are most welcome.

Thanks,Srividyaa and Thomas for letting me know about Amit's condition.

THOMASJACOB · Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2008 3:47 pm Post subject:

Folks there is a lot of communcation gaps going on here

What I meant by Shivani giving a fitting reply is that - Amit always raised the issue why the girls were silent on the discussions related to marriage - and the moment Shivani saw that - she gave him a very good reply and I really liked the way she wrote it. And it has nothing to do with proposals n all

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